Male Sex Toys Tips

Most male sex toys focus on stimulating the anus. This allows intense pleasures and stimulation afforded from the sensitive nerve endings around and in the anus   If you are a new comer to anal play, I suggest you take a plunge and try it as you will be surprised at jus  how erotic anal sex toy play can be.

 

Many of us have inhibitions and blocks about anal play. This probably is due to early toilet training and the shame put into us as young kids from our parents.

 

Another inhibition is some guys feel anal play is only for gays. This is a pity, as my experience has shown that anal and prostate stimulation can lead to mega orgasms with no ejaculation that go of for ages. (I am not gay)

 

I cover a easy way to overcome sex shame in my Better Sex in 14 Days ebook.

 

So the first key in using male sex toys is to really wash yourself down there.

One also needs  is to be relaxed and use lots and lots of lubrication. The main reason for this is that unlike a woman’s vagina the anal canal does not produce any natural lubricant. It is important to use a water based lub in male sex toy play as silicone or petroleum based lubrication could cause irritation.

 

Never use anal sex toys without lubrication. Sex should be about pleasure not pain.  

 

All anal male  sex toys should have some form of flared base. See Anal home made set toys. The last thing you want is to loose a toy up your rectum. It would be highly amusing to the staff at Accident & Emergency and highly embarrassing for you.

 

Fully relax your anus before insertion of any male sex toy.

 

The best way to do this is with finger massage. Enter the anus a little and push on the muscle ring and relax. Try this around the anus at 1 o'clock, 2 o'clock etc. Take your time during this practice. You will find the anus relaxes as you do this practice.

If you are inexperienced in this area it is best to start small and move on up to bigger anal male sex toys. Having a range of differing sizes is a great way to slowly train your anus to relax.
 

This is also a great way to relax a woman's anus before anal sex too. Many men rush anal sex and turn women off it for life.

 

Always clean your anal toys with soap and a disinfectant. Avoid putting any anal toys that have been in the anus  in the vagina. This can cause infections for the woman.

 

If you use butt plugs that are made of jelly, use a condom on the toy before you insert it into the anus. Jelly is porus and can absorb bacteria.

 

Have fun exploring male sex toys.